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Непрочитанное сообщение R.Toma » 31 окт 2018, 11:42

Oral kids

Early childhood. A nursery/school (kindergarten)

An oral child was born with the desire to the right initiation of his/ her erogenous zone-tongue, lips, gums. The initiation happening not only on the change of taste sensations, and continuous speaking. In contrast from obedient, calm and diligent kids with the anal vector, or audial, who from their childhood wonder adults by their seriousness and detachment/ dispassionateness, oral kids surprised by their volubility, continuous noise, which create around themselves.

Regular talk from their childhood. Oral people love other humans. The more people there are, the better for oral humans. They are absolute extroverts. It is the embodiment of extroversion- oral verbal mind. An olfactory person always striving to the hillock: everybody sits as normal people eat, drink, talk, laugh, but not olfactory humans. And oral people are on the contrary: every time among people.

A mother leads her anal child to a nursery/school- he/ she frowns, a visual child weeps. No one wants to go to a nursery/school. But oral kids go there with pleasure, with normal mood, without any fluctuations/swings. When they came to any group of children, start to talk very fast, without interruption/ non-stop. A speech apparatus is not yet developed, therefore words are overtaking an opportunity to speak. A teacher/ educator says: "Shut up!". He/ she is a chatterer, and it's impossible to listen to him/ her always. Every child likes to talk, but an oral child is talking too much! A teacher puts him/ her into a corner, but he/ she talks and there. They are talking always. It is very difficult (can tell it's impossible) to withstand them! How many times to punish them, still talking anyway. To all other to makes laugh others.

This is hard for those around. If those kids sit in some isolation room, they stop to talk, because there are not ears of somebody around. Here at a child's nursery, a mother of an oral child came to pick him/her up. "Mummy, mummy!". And finally can talk, because it's native mum. "Mum, mum, I tell you now, everything that happened today! How we were sitting on the pots: stood up, sat down, stood up, sat down. After we walked: stood up, sat down, stood up, sat down. After that, it was this and then this.
His/ her mum answered: I can't hear you more. Please stop. Can you be quiet? Mum is very tired and can't hear your unceasing speaking more. What is a chatterer?! Mum is very tired". It's ok if he/ she speaks, but his/ her mum could think/ dream about something. No! He/ she distracts him/ her and concentrates on his/ her chatter. Mum asks him/ her not to talk any more. An oral child understands it: "My mum doesn't want to listen to me. She was tired at her work". She asks me to be quiet and starts to shout at me. I take no offence because I'm not touchy.
Mum says: "Shut up!".
- Mummy! John pushed Tania! It was action!
- What you talk about?! And how it happened?
- They sat and talked, after started.
- And?! Talk to me!
Oh, it seems my mum is not tired at her work. She is ready to listen to me!
And I start to think up:
- John pushed Tania and came in a policeman.
- Oh, no...! And?
- And after was that...
- And?!
Later was it.
- Oh, my gosh! (says, mum). She doesn't want to listen about me and nursery group, but is ready to hear about neighbours! And she asks more questions, hm! At the same time, she looks on me with eyes wide open.

Oral kids find ways for implementation of their natural potential, directly or indirectly. Because it is their desire to talk, develop their speech apparatus, and through speaking to develop thinking. If you don't want to listen, oral people find any other/different way.

But mum asks about everything:
- I hope, is she ok?
- Hm, it is not clear. Maybe she is ok, or maybe not... She is ok, or not...
Oh, God, again, this non-stop speaking! And this speaking is main thinking for oral people. Talking, again talking, without any break!

But what we can oversee, John and Tania sit and everything ok between them.
Mother grasp at her heart and is almost fainting.
Later:
- John, are you ok?! Tania, are you ok?!
- Yes, we are fine.
- Oh, my idiot spoke me such things!

And she starts to slap on her son's/ daughter's lips. She would like to wean him/ her lie but doesn't realize/recognize, that spanks on his/ her erogenous zone and inflicts injury her child. After she could observe, that her son starts to stutter. "Muummm, I nneeddd...", yes it's spanked on the lips/punished oral kids. Because this mother didn't want to listen, what happened in the nursery, she would like to hear about something, what is more, interesting for her. What she interested, her son told that. Because for an oral person it doesn't matter, what should be told. The main thing to talk and that mum would like to listen to an oral child.
But if you slap on their lip, need to understand, that cause harm to your child and he/ she can start to stutter. Lips, it is an erogenous zone of oral people!

Definitely, such a person would make people laughing.
He/ she is a joker. They only began to speak and everyone already laughing: "Khiiii-khiii!" "A-ha-ha! What is a funny story! A-ha-ha!". Everyone feels well and loves an oral person. It's good to feel a beast inside ourselves! No any voltage of mind! Childhood. At school, on a lesson, everyone concentrates his/her "visual and audial minds", a child with the anal vector (without any upper vector) sits and sniffs, to want be the best pupil, but the mind is not enough, and he tries to understand/ to study by diligence. How is a dermal person? He thinks: "devil, dad said, that if I would bring bad grades, he will not buy me a new bicycle!". Hmm, need to understand it. It is hard for people! And suddenly "A-ha-ha!". Oh, an oral child makes laugh again. And everybody began to laugh:"Khiii-khiii!". And at this moment awakes the beast, which there is inside of a human.

This an oral child there is in the spotlight. Everybody loves him/ her for jokes/good mood. Only one person jumps aside from an oral person. Everyone is happy and loves those jokes, only one weird, who stays near a wall, away from a child with the oral vector, to be more precise-from everybody. But an oral child could steal up and slap on the ears of that audial kid. And everyone begins to laugh:"A-ha-ha!".

An oral child wants, that everybody would listen to him/ her. Well, he/ she made laugh everyone! Came back home from a school, and what's next? He/ she wants to talk more. Ok, talk with whom? Nobody here. He/ she starts to make phone calls. He/ she will tell by phone, and is necessary only, that someone would listen to him/ her: "Do you listen to me? Hi, it's me! Do you listen to me? Repeat what I said! Listen to me further!".

What do you love to listen to? What do you want to listen? You don't want to listen to all in a row. He knows, everybody wants to hear some secrets and an oral person is a fan of secrets, especially of dermal people. And he starts telling about secrets, which he knows. What are the secrets of an oral person? No military secret, not! And such people are not taken in a foreign intelligence service. There are people, who say: "Oh, no, we don't need such a person".

"Secrets, I know all secrets and can tell about them!" As well as he/ she can tell with all the details! All the own secrets/ about him/ herself. He/ she says: "It is a big secret, only don't say someone else and promise me, that nobody will know, what I talk about. Promise me (because only I will say all those secrets to others!)". If you tell, nobody will listen to me. Everybody will listen to him/ her all the time.

And the same with his/ her mum, she will listen to some stories about John and Tania. ) All kids in a school will listen to him/her and laugh as beasts. Everyone will listen to him/ her at his home. Later all secrets will end. Totally, he/ she told 122 secrets: Two from them are real, others are false.

If their information ended, they can tell about mother's secrets. "I will tell you such thing! Are you know, what my mum and dad do at night?". And he/ she begins to tell about this "secret". After he/ she could say, that his/ her dad abused mum, and his/ her mum cried and screamed. And the police came in and took his/ her dad! At this moment dad at the police station, mum in the hospital. And he/ she stays alone at home!".
Quite recently a teacher spoke with his/ her parents:
- Are you ok? How do you feel?
- What did you mean? I'm fine!
- But, I listened, that you were in the hospital because your husband abused you.
The dad of that oral child came in.
Oh, are you not at the police station? Are you at liberty? But we know, that you were taken by the police.
- What?! What did you mean?

- What is the police?
- What is a hospital?
- Are children will deceive?
A visual teacher: "I have a big experience, and love children so much. My experience of 40 years. I tell you- kids are angels and never lie. Well, maybe they could to exaggerate. It's right!". But there is no smoke without fire. And mum and dad don't know, what need to do. A headteacher called and your son said, that mum in the hospital, and dad at the police station because a police took him.

A word is not a sparrow if flew - you cannot catch. Oral people have an impact on other people. In a developmental stage they could tell their "secrets", and when all these "secrets" finished, but they need to talk always.
They need to talk because they develop through speaking. And others have thoughts in their heads. Because oral people induce others, create new neuron connections, that everyone would say some thoughts, which have the same meaning.

What should we say? Oral people are great gossips. Rumours, jokes, funny stories are by the oral vector.


Visual people have a great/right/intelligent speech, they correctly pronounce words, use a right the correct emphasis on the word, when they developed. A speech of oral people is different.

They couldn't concentrate on their speech, because are talking always, without any break. At the same time, their speech apparatus develops in the process of speaking. Very often they lisp a little. In their childhood, most oral kids lisp, not pronounce all sounds. Such oral people. Lisp may remain in their adulthood if they had heavy emotions/experiences in their childhood if parents didn't let talk much. These children tried to develop but were unable to do it, and now have a bad diction.

A speech could be inarticulate, but at the same time, it is remembered!
When they couldn't tell by words, begin to draw it on a fence. They are ready to draw everything on a fence if needed. And with gestures to show, what they mean. Their first performance of species role took place when he/she (an oral child) was 6 years old.

In a class appears a child with the olfactory vector.
At the same time comes in a boy or girl with the oral vector. Here they suddenly for themselves begin to talk about such things. Kids with the oral vector feel such sensations towards all and pronounce it, that senses a child with the olfactory vector. Everyone laughs.
They are not simple blabber, but especially are making a targeted gossips/slander. Oral people are slanderers. A slander, gossips, perjury are by a human with the oral vector. When he/she is under the supervision of a person with the olfactory vector. Without slanders of an oral person, such as a dermal-visual female would drive mad every male in a village. "If slept with one-he cooked oatmeal, with other-bought expensive gifts", and an oral person is gossiping about it always.


How audial mothers should communicate with oral kids?
The main thing, don't need them throwing away, as audial mothers do with loud shouting kids. Every child has his/ her own shout, but oral baby's cry penetrates straight to the soul. In Hollywood such shout called "blood-curdling scream". Just imagine an audial mother and such blood-curdling scream... Who can endure it?

Need to direct an oral child, that he/she would not simply talk, but collects information, which lets him/ her develop. It's very important to give them the chance/ability to develop one's diction. Today there are lots of rhetoric's school. Need to listen to them, a very interesting information, which can help develop, but don't hear his/ her chatter/gossip. Parents are able to direct it on the way of the correct development.


Bring more children at home, that he/she could communicate with them and distracted by other people's ears. Our next condition/state, which expressed by our kids, is more important. When there are not kids, we have something of themselves represent. When children appear, they (future states) are more important. It comes in the priorities above us. And need to think/remember about it. There is a species base. And we (parents) know about such kids everything. On the basis of this, it's necessary to develop a special program. How we can help to develop to our children? There is a full/species information. For example, can read different books for mother aloud.
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Непрочитанное сообщение Inna S. » 31 окт 2018, 12:17

Irena, thanks a lot for this piece of information on the oral vector.
I have noted that if the oral kid (or an adult person, no matter) also has the audial vector, it may not always look as a typical oral person. The audial vector introversion makes its contribution to the person's habits and manifestation.

Yet, I wonder why it is so different, one oral-audial person is a real philosopher, the other one is just a clown... Any ideas?
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Непрочитанное сообщение Ekaterina33 » 02 ноя 2018, 10:45

Inna, I think the differences in development of properties. One from childhood were not allowed to talk, yelling at him, and the other listened to, spoke to him in a whisper. So?
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Непрочитанное сообщение lazole » 07 ноя 2018, 13:39

I still don't understand how an audial mother can stand her oral child?
To keep him or her in the nursery school all day, then take some sedative , listen to him or her , smiling tenderly with all her attention from 18 till 22 and then finally take some hard drink. Even if you see this type in a person , even if this person is your child - sometimes it's not enough. And till this child goes to a rhetoric school - there are about 7-8 years of terror.

I don't have an oral child. But I have audial type in me. And I often ask my child just to keep silence. She is ok with it, cause she is not oral. And yet her small talking sometimes overwhelms me. So I can't even imaging what audial mothers of oral children are going through.
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Непрочитанное сообщение R.Toma » 19 ноя 2018, 14:49

Cannibalism
The long time ago we (people) devoured dermal-visual boys, not ourselves, but put him on a whole table.

The small sketch. Anty Maria comes to visit the family where lives a dermal-visual boy. "Oh! What is a beautiful boy you have! How old is he? Is he 6 months old? M-m-m-m! "I would eat him now!" says Maria, who has the oral vector. "I would eat!" She talks through her shortages! How he looks like on a girl. Yes, he likes on a girl much!". She sublimated, and will not eat, but pronounce her shortages.

Today there are more separate cannibals, who act in the presence of other food. Definitely, it is will have its growth as a pedophilia, maniacs. Don't need to mix with the situation, when some drunk bums kill one other and eat. This is the moral degeneration, personality disintegration from alcohol (i.e everything, that was developed by past generations, all Reshimot..., crashes this cultural level). Killed a pal and have eaten, it is the animal cannibalism too. And happen it by a personality destruction or sexual perversion.

Today could prone to cannibalism an oral-muscular person or anal-muscular with the oral vector. Cannibalism is homosexual always. This is libido. People do everything by their libido. Our life, an animate matter is a libido, which manifests itself and sexually too. This is the homosexual desire to eat a dermal-visual boy. Cannibal in our world does not immediately decide to eat somebody. As a pedophile, and others who have perversion, which based on deep sexual frustrations, and the same an oral cannibal has an internal struggle long time. He suffers a long time, but after crosses a permissible line anyway. The social fear of punishment restrains/ holding back him, but his libido is much stronger. It is very important to know because has a risk in the Future.

Illustration. Jeffrey Lionel Dahmer is a homosexual cannibal (26 years old). Such people need to study. A tidy man, in a clean shirt, suit. No one person with the anal vector could believe, that he is a monster. He had the desire to black boys, but he is a white person. It was a manifestation of racism; I.e not his one race, but other. He became acquainted in pubs with boys, who are 17 years old, 14 from them was eaten. He led them to his home. Performed the homosexual coitus by consent, after killed and eat them. Anal-oral brilliant/ genius chef. He liked to cook some new sauce for liver, culinary creativity triumphed into him. Until he ate completely, only then went to the next murder. Thus he implemented himself in the culinary. And so such implementation in homosexual relationships. There is such integrity of all manifestations.
Women with the oral vector like to kiss so much "Oh, what is a sweet child you have! Mwah! Mwah! Mwah! Mwah! So would have eaten him".

In Germany, there are lots of cannibals now. He (cannibal) gave just the announcement on the forum, that wants to eat a boy, and responded to lots of people. So many people were wishing to be eaten, that for him would be not enough and one his life. Eventually, he ate one by mutual agreement. This is the neurosis of the visual vector when our natural fear (by eaten by cannibals) turn into an irresistible victim urge/desire. Such histories become more and more.

When it is hunger, there are natural things, only 5 days and cannibalism appears; as a normal phenomenon.

There are visual positive and negative communities. In America it is varies easily: all those organizations of mass culture, which are the fighters for lives of laboratory mice (because they want to live too), all these vegetarians, who are opponents of any war, nudists are a huge group of people with the visual vector, which is not on the highest developmental level. But collectively they carry great positive activity, contribute the great humanization into the society. Everyone in a separateness is only vegetarian or nudist. A private level is very poor, a visual person is capable of even more. But still, together they can bring benefit. There are experimental as a hippie community of visual boys.

But there are and negative manifestations of these communities. All these Goths, in a grave condition of a fear. They combine in these groups. And full their symbolism associated with death. This all about a fear. And their consolidation is not through the high developmental level, by a big fear. And the whole fear of such groups unconsciously attracts to them, oral people with cannibal's complex. Of course, among them are mad audial people (where without older brother), but basically people with the visual vector, and everyone is in some fear. And it is disgusting because doesn't carry/give any payloads.

In there retracts and a person with the oral vector. Definitely, in this visual community, he/ she (person with the oral vector) is the best, because he/ she communicates with everyone and the most notable/visible. And in some moment they provoke the sacrifice with eating (similar itself) within a group. After we can see as these visual people adjudicated for cannibalism. But this everything organized a person with the oral vector, who is drawn by their collective fear.


The developmental levels of the oral vector
The degree of development of a vector determined by a ratio/correlation inside-outside.

On the animate level, oral people are the professional food taster. The desire to change of taste sensations-what is more exotic, most delicious. "Are you ate snaky soup? It is so delicious! Maybe you ate fried cockroaches as Thailand? It is such tastiness! ". They like exotic food, which is different in microelement composition from own one. When a person with the oral vector is undeveloped, he/ she is eating and speaking with full mouth without stopping. He/ she eats-speaks-drinks, and it looks very awful.

On the next developmental level, these people are singing like Freddie Mercury. They are great jesters, jokers, clowns. Oral people are good lectures, the best professors, never read from a crib sheet, everything from themselves. They like to joke so much, relax audience, and give a great material again.

Orators is the highest developmental level. They have the ability to induce, create common neural connections.
It is a mental influence on society. An orator apostrophizes/addresses with a speech not to a group of people, human pack, but to a whole society. A lecturer in the university is a person with the oral vector on an animated level. A vegetative level is not a few, it is a normal medium level of human development.
A thought there is beyond time. And when it is appearing in the head, they have a clear sense: it was in my head always. They remember that didn't speak about it, therefore it seems to them, that they knew about it always, only couldn't say.

Every vector works for uniting of the group anyway, even dermal measure through the creation of a law. Oral people create common thoughts. Or on an animate level, or further by mixing.

A visual person will be sitting quietly when is filled with emotions. If a visual person has 5 performances in a week, so comes in emotionally exhausted, and at this time he/ she doesn't have some energy for any empathy, emotional contact with his/her life partner or friends. They are emasculated emotionally. The same happens with an oral person, who is able to fill him/ herself, to feel satisfaction from implementation/ realization of his/her natural potential and there is no need to talk more. An oral person will sit and be silent if he/ she good long talks.


Neurosis
It difficult to talk about neuroses in the quartile of energy. Neurosis is the delta of Culture above a beast. An olfactory person doesn't have neurosis. An oral person doesn't have visible neurosis, could only stutter. And the pathological liar. If a child it does not lie, this is the development path. If an adult/older person, this is the pathological liar. And this is not a healthy condition of a person. This is social psychopathy because has an impact on people. But there is not an individual neurosis. Here is necessary to understand/determine in notions.

There are not individual meanings, which manifest as neurosis, but there are social. The pathological liar is a sociopath. This is a neurotic not personal, but collective property. An anal, dermal person is the real neurotic of personal nature. With oral people there are not the personal features/differences, but there is the negative effect on people. Such person can predetermine for 5 minutes the whole piece of yours relation with other person for the next 4 years. Just for pleasure. He/ she had my ears, but what are effects, it is not important for him/ her. They change a life, memory with negative effects, ender a negative consequence, pathological negative on other people. A social neurotic.
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Непрочитанное сообщение Эва Болбачан » 20 ноя 2018, 07:18

Cannibalism is too scary to talk about! I still don't believe that all of us can turn into cannibals in 5 days of sturving... and it's a mind blowing thing to realise that it's a mercy...
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Непрочитанное сообщение Елена Ясенева » 20 ноя 2018, 10:31

We might talk about cannibalism not a direct way. Now its means desire to use people for your personal gain.
"Hey, everybody, let's make me happy!" Otherwise, I'm going to feel angry)))
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Непрочитанное сообщение lazole » 21 ноя 2018, 08:47

Elena, we are all still like this, aren't we?
We don't change after the training automatically, but at least we realize that we would like to use others and start to try to change it consciously.
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Непрочитанное сообщение AnastasiaAU » 21 ноя 2018, 11:06

You can see a visual girl crying over the dead body of a pet rabbit,she needs to cry, its therapeutic. Comes oral boy with balalaika and allure her to come with him singing. Than to cry she laughs and devalues the problem
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Непрочитанное сообщение Эва Болбачан » 25 ноя 2018, 09:47

Wanted to share a fresh story with you, about visual type. I've been to the Ballet House tonight. And noticed one thing. Snobby Visual Vector people don't applaud!
They just seat and watch, as if dancers owe them somethung! As if thet are too sophisticated or I don't know what, to give back to the ones who performed for us.

It's something new for me, I never seen it this way ))
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Непрочитанное сообщение Эва Болбачан » 25 ноя 2018, 09:58

Елена Ясенева писал(а):We might talk about cannibalism not a direct way. Now its means desire to use people for your personal gain.
"Hey, everybody, let's make me happy!" Otherwise, I'm going to feel angry)))


Exactly! Using other people I do understand... that's about us)) but eating other peoples flesh... that I can't imagine. That dosen't seem tte same to me. Though I undestand in my mind (not in my haert) that it's true...
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Непрочитанное сообщение Ekaterina33 » 25 ноя 2018, 15:43

Everything falls into place, don't be a cannibal, don't eat other :P
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Непрочитанное сообщение Анастасия М. » 26 ноя 2018, 02:30

lazole писал(а):I still don't understand how an audial mother can stand her oral child?

I don't have an oral child. But I have audial type in me. And I often ask my child just to keep silence. She is ok with it, cause she is not oral. And yet her small talking sometimes overwhelms me. So I can't even imaging what audial mothers of oral children are going through.


A child doesn't need the oral vector to speak all the time) I go through the same thing, sometimes I hardly can stand the non-stop chat with my visual daughter)) But the training definitely provides mothers with some know-hows of how to survive all that, right? ;)
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Непрочитанное сообщение lazole » 30 ноя 2018, 02:31

Training is worth every spent minute. But we got a nanny anyway)
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Непрочитанное сообщение R.Toma » 07 янв 2019, 14:29

Joint food intake

Control by the Creator through hunger. We have two pieces: physical and spiritual. We must come to rapprochement, i.e be in harmony with the Creator/Nature/external world, we have to come to the likeness of properties. On the physical level, there is a substitution. Laziness is an attempt to be made even to the Creator in a physical body. Unification/consolidation on the physical layer occurs at the time of ingestion. A family begins with a joint eating/ingestion 2-3 times a week.
It must be a tradition. "We are eating all together". It's all! It's well when a big family sits at the dining table. Usually, it's not good/right if everybody eats separate, for example, dad eats a sausage on a sofa, mother eats chips in the kitchen, and kids eat sandwiches in their room. Because there is no main base. Control by the Creator is hunger, and as feedback, is ingestion. Extraction/mining of a mammoth. And any family begins with joint eating. Everything else is secondary. It is a divine act. We put our family under direct collective control. Thereby we are under control by the Creator jointly.
We give feedback to the Creator through a joint meal. But not every person in itself gives that feedback separately. We give feedback to the Creator jointly and get control by Him through hunger. From us to the Creator, by Him to us. The Creator gives us hunger, we give feedback through eating/ingestion. The Creator's control is a maintain integrity to a greater extent.
Every person gets food when they are hungry. Today there is no hunger and we (people) went out from under the control, and are in a very bad condition. We have fun with food. We don't enjoy being hungry. One of the greatest sins is gluttony. And we are staying on our balance/freedom of choice. That means the fundamental basis for us is an idea. 30% of children are obese. It is a violation. Food should be undernourished, and it must be a norm/rule of life. We must learn this through dermal people. Today only they can limit themselves in gluttony/overeating. If it is very difficult for you, you need to join into the entourage of dermal people. The best weight loss program, when you choose to surround yourself by only slim people, who can limit themselves in food.
10% by the law of Nature. In order to be more active, we need to limit ourselves in food on 20%. It's like almost hungry. Not completely. Anorexia is to go out from under the control by the Creator, only from the other/different side. Some people are eating too much, others don't eat anything.
- Oh, the poor blade of grass, sorry, I love eating it!
- What have you eaten today?
- Blade of grass.
- What have you eaten yesterday?
- Yesterday was a dietary day without any grass. It is very bad.
In a family, ranking by food intake is very important. And important to know, how it needs to be done. The one who gives food puts himself last. And this person begins from the head of the family, not from children. If you begin from kids it could have no good effect on them. A wife gives a meal to the husband first, after giving to sons from older to younger, and after that to daughters from older to younger. Who is serving the food, serves to himself last, as a urethral person. First is the head of the family. And it is a right serving of food. If it's done in another/different order, a homeowner doesn't tell something/ doesn't feel it, but unconsciously it is a violation. And unconscious program takes it as a violation and tries to compensate/to find fault with a child. It could be other rationalization. We must not violate. Within us lives a beast.

Bad news
Bad news can kill. For bad news, people were executed. That has a huge meaning. Because it's capable of killing. And a person could fall into the intensive care unit. People cannot report bad news and try not to do it. "Please don't worry, John!" - "He is alive?" - "Please wait, I will tell you all about it!" - "He is alive?" "Don't worry, John!" - "What has happened with Peter?!" - "Peter got a bad grade in a school!". It is necessary to be able to report different news.

Self-knowledge
We have self-knowledge. Through it, we could reveal a whole world. How other people should understand you? It is false thinking. And very often we fall not in natural marriage. "She understood me" - and I married her. He is a person with the anal vector, she is too and is capable to understand him.
But! Nobody must understand anyone. He/she must understand him/herself. Where are all maniacs and murderers from? All of them can be found inside ourselves. Inside ourselves, there is the eight-measured whole system, which is structured in a definite way. Just we do not have access to it, gradually we will get it. Nobody must understand or accept you - there is no such specific natural law. Need to understand/ recognize oneself. But, when it happens to you, you begin to form incredible relations with others.
When these disclosures will occur inside yourself, you will get new internal states, and others begin to communicate with you as before. They will have a different attitude toward you. Externally it will be expressed, that will create complementary relations with other people, but nobody must understand you. Why on earth? For what reason?
Verbalization of shortages. And need to listen to the other person, because everyone says by shortages.
If these shortages are accumulated, a person doesn't feel satisfied with life. And he/she would like to fill them (shortages). It is necessary, that every person begins to understand and become aware of him/herself.

About alcohol
Visual people, when they are done drinking, they stop controlling themselves and when the brain's dis-inhibition, happens, they definitely begin to cry. A muscular person is very angry and dangerous if he/ she gets drunk. People with the anal vector begin to ask:" Do you respect me?!". And everyone begins to express his/her shortages without breaking through the cerebral cortex. A beast is bursting through. An audial person falls down to sleep immediately. A urethral person gets some passion and his/ her eyes are burning. A drunk person is not beautiful, because they are not able to brake themselves by the cerebral cortex.
Irena Tomasevic
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Непрочитанное сообщение Ekaterina33 » 08 янв 2019, 13:45

What useful meanings. I responded about the killers inside us .
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Непрочитанное сообщение Анастасия М. » 11 янв 2019, 12:53

The best weight loss program, when you choose to surround yourself by only slim people, who can limit themselves in food.

That's a very clever point, thank you! It's great to see how each and every lecture brings something new. Really, I've heard it a thousand times already how important for us and our life scenario are the people that surround us. A lot I've heard about the inner reasons that make people overeat. But I could never put two and two together this way and figure out that this is the way it works the best way.
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Непрочитанное сообщение Юрий Цыбульский » 11 янв 2019, 13:01

I stell cant fell how the creator controls me with hunger, now a days we dont care about food its no control from him. so maybe you will delete or coment this part?
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Непрочитанное сообщение Анастасия М. » 11 янв 2019, 15:05

I stell cant fell how the creator controls me with hunger

Have you ever felt a bit dumb after you got your stomach full? This is it)
Well, all in all, here Creator means the force that pushes us to do things to survive and prosper. We can only be useful when we're not satisfied enough, so if we eat our heads off, we're no use and kinda refuse to live our life to the fullest.
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Непрочитанное сообщение Лия Тимофеева » 12 янв 2019, 03:18

For me, was very informative the news about the need for a joint taking food at the same time all family members to create a positive relationship. In today's world, this is happening less and less.
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Непрочитанное сообщение Dina » 12 янв 2019, 06:09

A few years ago we decided to feed our stuff at work. It was a difficult time. Some of my colleagues have not been satisfied with the menu. Some of them ask to give money instead of food. And we stopped it. After the training when I have understood how important is the joint food intake we start feeding our stuff again. It real сonnect people, it's a powerful thing.
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Непрочитанное сообщение dariadobraya » 12 янв 2019, 12:50

Wow, interesting! Now I realize why our office becomes so consolidated after every dinner with coworkers all together. Every word is a complete true! :D
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Непрочитанное сообщение Ната-Наталия » 13 янв 2019, 12:20

Posts about food're the most popular. If you want to draw attention to your site on the Internet write about food and share recipes ;)
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Непрочитанное сообщение Ekaterina33 » 13 янв 2019, 13:12

Ната-Наталия писал(а):Posts about food're the most popular. If you want to draw attention to your site on the Internet write about food and share recipes ;)

And if you write what get pleasure when you eat, then doubly readable
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Непрочитанное сообщение YuliaKaitanidi » 15 янв 2019, 07:58

The post of R.Toma has opened my eyes about ranking by food in family. I listened to interview by priest Andrey Tkachev, and he said, that wife shout give first food serving to your husband, but not their children. In this way wife shows to children, that she loves her husband and he's head of family. It's very important in raising children. Now, I understad that way is right.
My husband is greek. His freands and family have the tradition to celebrate each holiday with dancing, and the tables are filled with food. This way makes each person very happy.
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